Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Getting Lead On (600 M1 M2)


This blog will be about how most of the time guys lead girls on and end up messing around with their feelings. A lot of the times guys don’t know they are messing with their emotions or feelings because they don’t ever think they are leading them on. Sadly, if a guy just wants to be friends with a girl that actually does care about them, they are leading them on. Very rarely they don’t mean to lead them on because they don’t know the girl likes them, but they are usually are leading them on. Sometimes girls lead guys on, but they are least tell them ahead of time that nothing will happen between them. Guys either just use them, or just try to make their ex-girlfriend or the girl the like jealous. I know plenty of people who are like that, and somehow someone ends up getting hurt because they don’t care about the other person’s feelings. When you lead someone on and you are doing it on purpose, you honestly don’t deserve anything. Leading someone on is just rude and nasty because it ends up completely messing around with their heads and they don’t think straight when it comes to the next relationship they will be in. The person that is being lead on actually thinks they may have a chance with this person but in the end, they get their feelings crushed because the person ends up not wanting them. If it’s a neutral thing when it comes to not talking anymore or breaking up, then that’s completely fine. But most of the time it isn’t a neutral thing and someone ends up getting hurt. So many of my friends end up getting lead on by a girl or a guy and seeing what they guy through is absolutely terrible. The most important thing you could possibly do to save yourself from getting lead on or hurt is to make sure you try finding the right person who is on the same exact track as you and won’t end up messing around with your feelings. If you are second guessing about it and you two end up dating, be careful because you never know… The person could end up cheating on you in the long run because maybe you aren’t making them happy enough. If you are the person who is leading the other person on think twice when you are doing that to them. Just think, would you like that if you were the person you were doing it too? Probably not… Girl’s emotions and feelings are basically like roller coasters. Some days they are completely fine and then in seconds their emotions and feelings can completely change. Sometimes they don’t even try doing it, it just ends up happening but you have to stay around long enough to know when it is just a little thing that is occurring and they really can’t control it. Usually, guys really don’t have emotions or feelings towards things because they want to show their “manly side” to them, but girls actually enjoy and love it when guys show emotions. Sometimes it is a plus when a guy is tough about things because it make them look sexy, but mostly girls like when guys could sit there and cry. Feelings are very different to girls compared to guys because girls take things to the heart and think about it over and over again. Guys usually just let it blow over and end up not worrying about it because it usually doesn’t affect them. So next time you decide to mess around with a girls feelings or emotions, think twice.

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