Being rude (N2)

This blog will be about how guys shouldn’t treat girls with no respect. Honestly, 90% of the time guys treat girls so bad and rude. They can easily get away with calling them rude names, and things that can literally ruin their self-esteem. Most of the time guys don’t care at all about what they say to girls and if they hurt their feelings, the only thing they say is “sorry” and a word won’t make anything better. When girls wear a low cut shirt, they can sit there for a long period of time and just talk about how low their shirt is and how gross it is. One thing I don’t understand is, why can’t they just be nice to the girls and treat them with respect? It’s literally asking for a million dollars to have them be nice to you. Relationships back in the past were so much better compared to how they are now. Back then, guys would hold the door open for the girls and would open their door for them when they get out of the car, and now guys don’t do any of that. Do they really think they will find any girl that will put up with their drama and rudeness? Clearly not… I don’t understand how most guys enjoy making girls upset and it just makes the upset and feels worthless. If a guy decides to hit a girl and try getting away with it, they honestly deserve to be alone for a long period of time because no guy should lay their hand on a female. Even if they decide to hit you first, it’s a girl… let’s be realistic. A girl literally weighs half of the weight a guy weighs and it just isn’t right. So next time a  guy decides to speak mean or try hitting a girl, try stopping them beforehand.

Why do you lie? (N1)

In this blog the main topic will be about how when it comes to relationships, don’t ever fight when you two just start dating. If you’re fighting with someone when it comes to you two just start dating and you are fighting, obviously things will not work out. Even if you try working things out, things may not always work out. Sometimes you can try and taking a break if you are fighting with each other and then you can see if that works, but if it doesn’t than things must not work. It’s sad when you figure out that things won’t work and you truly want them too but you two are just a bad mix for each other. If you two don’t fight at all, then obviously there are some secrets that you two are hiding from each other. If you think your boyfriend or girlfriend is hiding something from you, the worst thing you can do is suddenly turn crazy and try figuring out the thing they are hiding without talking to them first. The best thing you can do is try asking them if they are hiding something from you and if they say no, don’t sit there and beg them to tell you the truth. Everyone hates being lied too when it comes to relationships, so think twice if you are lying to the person you are dating and try putting yourself in their position. Most of the time guys are the ones lying to the girls because they have so much that they are hiding which makes every other female sketchy about everything because they say every guy is the same way. Which is not true, but there are plenty of females out there who think that because basically every guy they dating lied to them.

Getting Lead On (600 M1 M2)

This blog will be about how most of the time guys lead girls on and end up messing around with their feelings. A lot of the times guys don’t know they are messing with their emotions or feelings because they don’t ever think they are leading them on. Sadly, if a guy just wants to be friends with a girl that actually does care about them, they are leading them on. Very rarely they don’t mean to lead them on because they don’t know the girl likes them, but they are usually are leading them on. Sometimes girls lead guys on, but they are least tell them ahead of time that nothing will happen between them. Guys either just use them, or just try to make their ex-girlfriend or the girl the like jealous. I know plenty of people who are like that, and somehow someone ends up getting hurt because they don’t care about the other person’s feelings. When you lead someone on and you are doing it on purpose, you honestly don’t deserve anything. Leading someone on is just rude and nasty because it ends up completely messing around with their heads and they don’t think straight when it comes to the next relationship they will be in. The person that is being lead on actually thinks they may have a chance with this person but in the end, they get their feelings crushed because the person ends up not wanting them. If it’s a neutral thing when it comes to not talking anymore or breaking up, then that’s completely fine. But most of the time it isn’t a neutral thing and someone ends up getting hurt. So many of my friends end up getting lead on by a girl or a guy and seeing what they guy through is absolutely terrible. The most important thing you could possibly do to save yourself from getting lead on or hurt is to make sure you try finding the right person who is on the same exact track as you and won’t end up messing around with your feelings. If you are second guessing about it and you two end up dating, be careful because you never know… The person could end up cheating on you in the long run because maybe you aren’t making them happy enough. If you are the person who is leading the other person on think twice when you are doing that to them. Just think, would you like that if you were the person you were doing it too? Probably not… Girl’s emotions and feelings are basically like roller coasters. Some days they are completely fine and then in seconds their emotions and feelings can completely change. Sometimes they don’t even try doing it, it just ends up happening but you have to stay around long enough to know when it is just a little thing that is occurring and they really can’t control it. Usually, guys really don’t have emotions or feelings towards things because they want to show their “manly side” to them, but girls actually enjoy and love it when guys show emotions. Sometimes it is a plus when a guy is tough about things because it make them look sexy, but mostly girls like when guys could sit there and cry. Feelings are very different to girls compared to guys because girls take things to the heart and think about it over and over again. Guys usually just let it blow over and end up not worrying about it because it usually doesn’t affect them. So next time you decide to mess around with a girls feelings or emotions, think twice.

Finding the right one (L2)

This blog will be about trying to pick the right guy when it comes to being in a relationship. Every girl thinks when they find someone that they won’t end up breaking their heart. Well sadly, every relationship ends up breaking up or getting married. There is really no in between when it comes to that. If you find a guy too nice when you first start talking to them, and that is kind a throwing you off. Unfortunately, they all end up turning into crazy or a mean person. If they are controlling in the beginning, chances are they will be controlling in the whole entire relationships. It is very hard to try finding the “right guy” but if you are in high school still chances are you will not marry them so there is no point in getting your heart broken over a pointless relationship. If you think you found the right guy and he does treat you good, I would personally keep them as long as you can because every relationship has a lesson that it has taught you. Sadly, as true as it is everything does end up coming to an end. Even if you don’t want it too, it eventually will. Sometimes when you think about it, if you relationship comes to an end… Everything happens for a reason so maybe you will find the right one down the road. It is hard to figure out if this person is the right one, sometimes you find out the hard way and you think “every guy is the same”, but that really isn’t the truth. It does take time, but if you are searching for them they won’t come to you. You basically have to wait till they come to you. It is hard waiting for something or someone that you don’t even know if they are the right one.

First Impression (L1)

This blog will be about how guys should introduce themselves to their girlfriend’s parents. Most guys get scared about the whole situation when it comes to meeting parents, but it really isn’t a terrible thing. I understand that it does get a little scary once you meet the dad, but it shouldn’t be a terrible thing. You just always have to make a good impression when you first meet them, because if you don’t get along with the parents your relationship will go downhill from there.  If the parents don’t like you the first time you meet them, thankfully you can make yourself look like a better man the next time you see them by being polite or having good manners. For the girl meeting the guy’s parents, you shouldn’t be scared at all to meet them. The guy’s parents usually are always nice and enjoy meeting the girl who is dating their son… unless they are psycho parents. It is always normal to be a bit nervous when you meet the parents, but you can’t let that get in the way of being polite. When you are around the parents, you probably shouldn’t swear or be rude because that will just make you look bad. Especially if you plan on staying with this person for a while because if they don’t like you… chances are your relationship will struggle if they don’t allow them to go out with you to places. If you end up doing fine when you meet them, it is always a plus to have a second family basically to be yourself around. Hopefully this will help you the next time you have to meet parents, because once you ruin your first impression it is very hard to get another chance on making yourself look better.