Distance (U-2)

No one really understands how terrible it is being away from someone for a period of time and not being able to see them. Being in a long distance relationship sucks and then again it only makes your relationship stronger. When you are away from someone for a period of time, sometimes you will end up fighting because you aren’t around each other and you can only contact each other through the phone. So obviously it will be hard to be with someone when you can’t have a face to face conversation and sort things out. But then again, being in a long distance relationships is good because then you realize how much you need that other person and when you see that person after a long period of time, it is literally the best feeling in the world. Obviously you will have your ups and downs during the time because it is a hard situation, but if it’s meant to be it will be. If you don’t want to be in the long distance relationship because you know it will be difficult, then you are better off breaking up with the person before you go into the relationship. Some people think it will be easy being in a long distance relationship, but they have it totally wrong. Try being away from someone that you talk to every single day, and that sometimes you see them every single day, to going to see them once a month basically. Half of the time I think I can deal with this relationship, and then again I have my days where I want nothing to do with it because it isn’t fair for someone to be miserable everyday waiting for the person to come home. I guess it just depends on the type of person you are.

Changes (U-1)

Most girls these days really don’t have any respect for themselves and decide to ruin their reputation. It is sad seeing girls who were good people turning into something terrible. I can count a number of people who I am not friends with anymore because they decided to go down the wrong path and turn into bad people. It is either from doing drugs or basically being prostitutes because they don’t have any respect for themselves. It’s sad seeing half of your friends go down the wrong path and try changing them when you really have no control over them. After seeing all of my friends go down the wrong paths, I decided that I wouldn’t follow them because I have my own problems to worry about. When they want to talk to me about their problems, obviously I will listen to them because at one point they used to be my friend but I would probably not trust them anymore. Half of my friendships ended because of trust issues because no one knows how to keep their mouth shut with other people’s business. When people tell me things that they don’t want to be spread, I would never betray them because that is rude. One thing I would never do is become fake towards someone because I know how it feels and it’s a terrible feeling. Most girls do a complete 360 change after high school because they decided to change and it’s either for the good or bad. But most of the time, it’s for the bad. You can try helping them, but sadly you can’t because they don’t think anything is wrong with them. In life you will see that people change and there is really nothing you can do about it because it is their own decision.

Spitting the truth (T-2)

When I was a freshman I always thought that high school would be a terrible thing. Thinking about it now as a senior, I never thought 4 years could go so fast. But I’ve never been happier that this is finally almost done and I can actually move on with my life and start fresh. Senior year is probably the most boring year for anyone. The stupid part is, you actually have to go to school even when you have study halls basically every block. I wish the teachers would understand that this part of the year will just be a complete blow off for so many kids.  Trying to wake up every morning to come here is getting harder and harder as the year goes on. Thinking about softball starting in a month and the fact that I will be forced to come to school every day because I either won’t be able to participate in games if I’m not here for half of the day. As the year is going back, I’m starting to realize that this is almost finally over, and I would have to be around these people anymore. Even though that sounds terrible, but it’s true. People have their little groups, and even when they say they “like” you, half of them don’t. I try to be nice to people but all of them are just rude so obviously I will be rude back to them. I treat people how they treat me. Even though I do it in a worse way and I end up just ignoring them and pretending that they aren’t even real. It’s an easier way for me to show people how they treat me and how it feels to be treated like garbage. But thankfully, I’m half way there with this year, and I won’t have to deal with this anymore.

Daily Struggles (T-1)

I don’t understand how people can actually get up in the morning every single day and come to school trying to impress everyone. 90% of these kids in this school actually try to look good when they come to school, and then that 10% of basically seniors sit there and put on sweats every single day. The funny part is, if you have to get ready every morning to impress someone, then obviously you’re talking to the wrong person. If a guy can basically roll out of bed every morning and you find them somewhat attractive still, then why can’t you do it? Thankfully I’m one of the very few who don’t care what anyone thinks about me or what anyone says about me. Half the time if someone tries saying something to me to try and bring me down… I just laugh at them because their opinion means absolutely nothing to me. But most girls in high school actually care about what people have to say about them. Especially when it comes to freshman. The first few days of high school they are all scared to go, and after the first few weeks they completely change. Most of them turn into something they aren’t. Like they all say, you will not have the same friends as you do now and once you are a senior. When I was a freshman, I had friends and now I can literally count my friends on one hand. Nothing is wrong with that because you soon to realize that most of the people in high school are fake and are back stabbers. Sadly, you don’t know who is fake or a back stabber until they do it to you. I would agree that high school was a stressful time in my life, but there is no need to try so hard to impress people who will just do you wrong in the long run.

Daily Venting (S-2)

There are some people I can tolerate and then there are some people who I can’t even be around for a split second without wanting to just scream at them. One thing I can’t absolutely stand is when someone thinks they are better than the other person. If you really think you are better than the other person, why are you even wasting your breath talking about it? Half of the time I just mind my own business and try blocking people out of my mind so I don’t have to get worked up over it. It’s hard for me to keep my anger back because I am very blunt over situations. If someone is in the middle of talking about something and you decide to start talking and talk over their voice. Let’s say, but yourself in their shoes. Don’t you think that’s kind a rude? Or if you know the person is two faced and they sit there and try to get information from you about things and you don’t say anything to them and they start getting mad. Well, how stupid do you think I am? If you talk about a person’s life story to me daily what makes me think you don’t do that to me behind my back? You can never really know if a person will end up being two faced until you learn from your lesson, but that’s what life is. So your best bet is just to keep everything to yourself and not talk to anyone about personal things because eventually you two will not be friends and that’s when everything you said to them starts spilling out. So next time you decide to start being friends with someone who has a bad reputation or who is a terrible friend, you should probably think twice.

Valentine's Day (S-1)

Since Valentine’s Day is around the corner, men need to start thinking of ideas to get their girlfriends or wives. If you don’t end up getting them anything, then you just look like a bad person. Girls really aren’t that hard to please when it comes to getting them gifts, but guys usually don’t give the thought of getting a gift. Some examples of a good enough gift would be flowers, chocolate, something romantic, a teddy bear, or just a single flower. If you don’t bother getting them anything then you just look bad especially if they go out and getting you something small. Usually girls are supposed to get you anything on Valentine’s Day because it’s usually the guys thing to do. But if I was the girl in the situation, I would end up getting them something to show that I actually care. If a husband doesn’t end up getting their wife anything for a special day like Valentine’s Day or even try to be somewhat nice then that relationship is terrible. If really doesn’t take that much effort to go out and get them at least one flower to show some emotion towards them. I understand it is hard for guys to be romantic at times because they try to be so manly, but if you don’t show any emotion, then you aren’t getting anywhere in life.  If you don’t show any emotion or feelings towards someone, then you’ll most likely be alone because no female will want to deal with them getting treated badly because the guy doesn’t show any emotion. Eventually once you start showing them some sort of emotion, your relationship will eventually get better and you will both be happy. So if you are a guy reading this, chances are you should go out and get your girlfriend or wife something nice for Valentine’s Day.