Forcing to be friends (Q-1)

Sometimes it is very difficult for your boyfriend\girlfriend to have a best friend that’s the different sex. Most girls have that trusting issue when it comes to their boyfriend, even if they think they trust them more than life. It is hard to believe that they aren’t doing anything when the other person doesn’t have the best reputation. It is even worse when they are always with them and says that they are close with that person’s family. Sometimes if you bring it up to them they get extremely mad about it and when they get defensive about the situation makes you think other things. Even if you want to trust them with everything you have, but it is just hard to expect they wouldn’t do anything because of the other person. Then your boyfriend or girlfriend tells you to be friends with their friend and you try too but it is just too hard for you to understand why they are friends with that person. For example, I work with my boy friends best friend named Cindy. It is so hard to be friends with someone who is with your boyfriend more than you are and you have to sit there and expect nothing is happening. At times, yeah I can be friends with the girl but most of the time she just tells me stories about the things she does and it is absolutely terrible. I’ve never met someone so trashy before in my entire life. It is just absolutely terrible to watch someone else be that close with your boyfriend and be okay with it… Even when you aren’t.  I even have to sit there and bite my tongue because you can’t say anything about them without them either fighting with you or starting to be nasty to you.