Abusive Relationships (R-2)

This blog is about if you know someone who is suffering with child abuse. You can never look at someone and think that they are getting abused when they are at home because they can hide it so well. I know someone who told me many experiences before on what happened to them when they were at home. It is hard to try talking to them and telling them that things will be okay, when in reality it won’t be. You can’t tell them what to do about it because you aren’t in that situation and you can’t tell them things will go away. I’ve heard so many stories about parents putting their hands on their kids and hurting them both physically and mentally. You really don’t know what to say to them when they start talking about it because it’s upsetting. I’ve tried so many times to tell them to get help, but they say they can’t do that because they are their family. But if you actually think about it, if you are family. Why are they hitting you and hurting you? You can never look at someone and think they get abused at home because they can easily hide it behind their smile. But on the serious note, why would an adult hit a kid over something so small? Once a kid starts seeing someone getting abused, or is the one who is getting abused they can easily start following that persons steps. Lately, things have been getting bad about abusive relationships and domestic violence. Once people start seeing that going on, they don’t even know what to say anymore. If you ever see anyone getting abused or if someone tells you stories about them getting abused at home. Tell someone to save their life. No one deserves to be treated like that.

Never the same (R-1)

This blog will be about how when you and your boyfriend or girlfriend break up, it is for a reason. If you try working things out with the person and you think it is going to work… sadly it won’t. If you two broke up for a reason, then obviously it is not meant to be because you two will just end up breaking up again over a stupid reason. Some people won’t ever understand that they think it will work out, when it never will. It is hard to start fresh with someone and move on because you have so much of your past with that person.  Some people may not understand anything when you try to explain to them that it is hard for you to break up with someone and completely move on. But once you actually come to the fact that you know nothing will work out even if you try, maybe you will be happier without the person. Like they say, if you were happy before without them; you can be happy now. It is hard from going to talking to someone every single day to completely stopping it will be hard for you. Once you can actually come to the fact that once you two break up, things will never end up going back to how they used to be. Even if you try and try, nothing will end up back to normal. It’s sad at the end of the day when you realize that the person who you thought was the right one, and ended up to be the completely wrong person. So once you try figuring out who you want to be with, make sure you pick wisely. Once you break up with someone and try making things work, it just won’t ever end up okay.

Two-faced friends (Q-2)

It is hard to find someone who is actually a true friend instead of finding someone who is two faced. Most two faced people usually don’t think they are being that way because no one has confronted them which they should of. It is hard to see someone and know if they are two faced or not. It is hard to find out that your friend is two faced when you tell them basically your life and then they end up telling other people about it. Most of the time they will sit there and lie about it and say they didn’t say anything, but then you think about it… You only told that person what is going on in your life and then you are the one that looks stupid because you actually thought you could trust them. It especially sucks watching someone you are friends with become friends with someone who is two faced and watch them go through the same thing you did. Most friends wouldn’t treat you like garbage and be okay with it. If someone ever treated me like that, I wouldn’t tolerate it because I’ve been treated like that before and I know when something is okay and when it isn’t okay. If your friend ever called you pathetic or desperate over a guy that you’ve cared about for a long time and if you don’t do anything about it then that’s your fault. Like I said, it is hard to figure out which friend is two faced or not so it is basically up to you to try keeping some information to yourself because most people can’t do it. So next time you try finding out who is a true friend or not, try looking back at their past and see how they’ve treated their friends before.

Forcing to be friends (Q-1)

Sometimes it is very difficult for your boyfriend\girlfriend to have a best friend that’s the different sex. Most girls have that trusting issue when it comes to their boyfriend, even if they think they trust them more than life. It is hard to believe that they aren’t doing anything when the other person doesn’t have the best reputation. It is even worse when they are always with them and says that they are close with that person’s family. Sometimes if you bring it up to them they get extremely mad about it and when they get defensive about the situation makes you think other things. Even if you want to trust them with everything you have, but it is just hard to expect they wouldn’t do anything because of the other person. Then your boyfriend or girlfriend tells you to be friends with their friend and you try too but it is just too hard for you to understand why they are friends with that person. For example, I work with my boy friends best friend named Cindy. It is so hard to be friends with someone who is with your boyfriend more than you are and you have to sit there and expect nothing is happening. At times, yeah I can be friends with the girl but most of the time she just tells me stories about the things she does and it is absolutely terrible. I’ve never met someone so trashy before in my entire life. It is just absolutely terrible to watch someone else be that close with your boyfriend and be okay with it… Even when you aren’t.  I even have to sit there and bite my tongue because you can’t say anything about them without them either fighting with you or starting to be nasty to you.

Daily Venting (P2)

Most high school girls enjoy messing around with a lot of guys because they just became single. There is a difference between one guy, but when it doubles it is just embarrassing. So many girls enjoy being used because they feel like every guy would want them now. False statement, no guy will want to be with a girl that every guy has been with. It is absolutely repulsive when you find out all of these girls hooking up with other guys. For example, when one of your close friends end up being with your ex. It’s just rude and terrible to do to someone. Most guys enjoy finding a girl like that because they don’t want anything more than a one night stand. When you find someone who actually wants to settle down, that will be so surprising. But most of the time the only type of guy you will find will be a guy who doesn’t want anything serious, and when a guy is actually trying to settle down the girl will be one of those guys and want one thing. If you find a good relationship, my opinion would be to actually stay with it and don’t ruin anything. Once you try finding “better”, that’s when it will go downhill because you won’t be able to find someone who treated you better than that person did. Also, if you find a guy who doesn’t do anything bad, who doesn’t cheat or mess around. That is probably the guy you need to strap down. You will very rarely find a guy who doesn’t want to mess around and go party. And for girls who enjoy messing around, have fun trying to find a guy who will actually settle down with you. Because no guy wants to be with someone who has been with every other person in this town.

Distance (P1)

So many different emotions and feelings go through your head when you’re in a long distance relationship. No one really understands unless they are in the situation. Some people try saying the understand, but there is no possible way you can understand how they feel all the time when you aren’t miles and miles away from the person you care so much about. Half of the time while they are gone, you just feel like you are completely alone. Being alone is probably the worst feeling in the entire world and for the person you actually care about is not showing any emotion about it because males really don’t show anything, it is just very hard. Sometimes you feel like you aren’t going to be able to take it anymore because you feel like it is a never ending problem because you have a count down until they come home from college. For my situation, he will be away from me for 2 full years. Won’t even be home for summer, it is a full thing. Some people will be able to come home for summer, but for me to actually think about it… it sucks. Some people think a long distance relationship is a half hour drive. Yeah, well try a 6 and a half hour drive. You feel all of these different emotions and it is so hard to be able to keep yourself from going crazy because you want to show that person that you are strong enough to be in that relationship. The girls are always so much more emotional than guys and when a guy doesn’t show any emotion it is just hard. A lot of the time a girl will start a fight with the guy because they believe they don’t care about them.