What Girls Love (600)

This blog will be about things that girl’s love that guys do. There are a number of things girls love that guys do but sometimes don’t usually show it. One of them is when guys call the girl nick names which are cute. For example, when they call them princess, babe, love bug, and baby girl. Sometimes girls don’t like when guys call them hun or cutie.  Another thing that girls love is when guys cuddle them when it’s cold out and don’t make a big deal about it. Most of the time guys hate when the only thing girls want to do is cuddle because it’s cold out and make a big deal about it. Most of the time girls don’t always want to snuggle when it’s cold out but most of the time, they do. When it comes to winter time, girls enjoy going to see Christmas lights and experiencing the lights in villages. You don’t always have to take your girlfriend out around the holidays, but I think it’s a good idea to do it and be romantic. Also, if a guy can’t look you in the eyes for a period of time, it shows that he doesn’t feel comfortable around you. If a guy can’t look at me in the eyes, the only thing I think about is what they are hiding. I just find it cute if a guy can look at you in the eyes. Another thing a girl loves is when the guy can actually show her off to his friends. Most of the time, guys aren’t cute when they are around his friends because he wants to think he’s not a faggot. When a guy can actually sit there and show off his girlfriend to his friends and other people, it honestly does show a lot compared to other people. Most of the time guys don’t show their emotions towards the girlfriends because they feel different and don’t want to sound stupid. But when a guy doesn’t show his emotion or feelings towards his girlfriend, the girlfriend will think that he doesn’t care about her anymore because he can’t say cute little things. Even a simple nickname or a text message showing how much he cares would be nice but they are always scared. Sometimes, a girl likes a guy who doesn’t show their feelings or emotions because the girl likes to chase after them. Some girls are that stupid and enjoy chasing after the guys because they like how the guy isn’t just handed to them. But then again, some girls like when the guy is always right there. Guys don’t chase after girls, and if they do that means they actually do care and are into you. When they don’t chase after you, most of the time they are just probably using you because they have nothing better to do and to show off to their friends. Another thing a girl loves is when their boyfriend can feel comfortable around her family without it being weird or having her family not like him. I understand it is an awkward situation when it comes to meeting parents, but if you show the parents you are awkward or feel uncomfortable around them they will think you are a sneaky person. It’s always a plus when the parents actually likes you and it probably does relieve some stress so it is not awkward. Guys make it seem like girls are so hard to impress and to make happy, but they really aren’t. All you really have to do is put some sort of effort in the relationship, and there is always a chance it can work.

Just friends

This blog will be about one thing that affects girls dramatically but they usually don’t end up saying anything. The one thing that they get extremely mad about is when it comes to guys have really close friends that are girls. Sometimes it doesn’t affect them because the girl knows that him and his friend are just friends and nothing more. But sometimes, it gets to the point where it is hard for the girl to understand that they are just friends because how close they are with each other. Usually the girl will think twice about things, and then ask her boyfriend about it but when they end up getting all weird about it and make a big deal about it, that’s when the girl will start getting more crazier about the whole situation. If those two are always with each other and you can tell that they might like each other, you should probably ask in a calm voice to see. Sometimes, the guy will deny it and you can tell if he is telling the truth or not, but if you can not tell if your boyfriend is lying or telling the truth, then you should probably figuring something out because most females can tell if their boyfriend is lying or not. If you know your boyfriend is telling the truth about it, and he says he still wants to be friends with the girl but nothing is going on, don’t be that crazy person and not allow it. A relationship is based on trust, and if you don’t have that… then obviously you’re doing something wrong in your relationship. If you can never trust each other, what’s the point of being in a relationship if you think your boyfriend is always sneaking around behind your back?

Satisfaction

This blog will be based on how guys think it is so hard to make a girl happy when all they really need to do is just put in an effort. Half of the time when a girl is upset over something like that, it is based on the guy showing more emotion and attention to basically all of his guy friends. Sometimes, a girl doesn’t always want to be with their boyfriends friends all the time because it’s just annoying that you’re just there tagging along. Yes, I agree that sometimes it’s okay to hang out with their friends at times, but not all of the time. When it comes to giving them attention, it’s literally asking for the world because they make it so impossible to get that attention. They make it seem like they are asking them to buy them diamonds and flowers all of the time. But no, that is not the case. Sometimes, it just takes a little cute text message or a phone call saying something cute. I understand that most guys aren’t romantic when it comes to that stuff, but you eventually have to learn to be cute to their girlfriend. Once you get married, you are obviously going to have to step up on that because girls expect more from you once you get married. Most girls’ don’t always like attention, and that is completely fine. But obviously they are going to want cute little surprises here and there so they know the guy isn’t just not trying anymore. At first in a relationship, guys are cute and show emotion. But towards a few months in of a relationship, they show nothing and just expect a girl to understand that they still care. It’s hard to understand that because you never know if a guy will lose feelings for you because they are just that confusing.

Long Distance (600 words)

This blog will be about long distance relationships and how sometimes it may work or it may not work. Most of the time, it usually doesn’t work because one of them cheat on each other or the fighting usually gets really bad throughout the relationship. As we speak, I know someone who is in a long distance relationship. When I hear about it, I realize how much it’s similar to a lot of people I know. For example, my boyfriend is 374 miles away from me in Ohio University. Sometimes you think it might be worth it because of all of the fighting but then you actually have to sit down and think about it, and realize it’s just a rough day and things will eventually get better. When two people are in a long distance relationship, seeing them after a period of time being away from each other is a feeling I can’t explain. Even though my boyfriend and I been dating for about 7 months, 3 of those months we have been in a long distance relationship. Before you think about it all, you say you are going to always go visit them and try anything you can to go off and see them. But when you realize how expensive it would be to drive that far, or even try to get a plane ticket or a train ticket it will still end up being expensive. You think that your relationship will be perfect while you are in a long distance, well you should be ready for a big awakening because your relationship will not be perfect at all. While you are in this relationship, basically all you really do is text, and sometimes talk on the phone and that will eventually lead to fights because you will get sick of each other and not being able to see them. The biggest change ever is when they either get a haircut or do something different with themselves and having to get used to how different they look than before. Personally if I had to choice to tell people to be in a long distance relationship or not, I would say no don’t do it. If you think your relationship is strong enough and you think you will be able to handle yourselves and be loyal to each other, then go for it. When I think about my relationship, I think it’s strong enough and should sometimes take some chances and see if it will actually work. If it doesn’t end up working, then you should just take a break from it, and try working things out once the person comes back from where ever they are to see if you can get things back to normal. Sometimes when the person comes back for a period of time, you get used to them always being there and then once they leave again for a long time you go through a stage called depression. I really never experienced that because I try to keep myself occupied and make sure I don’t think about it because when you actually do think about it, it honestly makes you feel like your best friend isn’t there for you anymore. My boyfriend doesn’t come back for good for another 1 and half years because of school. I’m not going to sit there and tell him not to go to school because that’s unfair, I would just try my best to figure out a good way to make things work. Of course you have your moments when you sit there and dread it because it’s terrible, but then you think about how much this will make your relationship stronger and how much it will make things better when you two see each other, and it really does make you want to stay in this relationship. Like they said, “distance means nothing when someone means everything”.

Taking Breaks

This blog will be about how if guys know that a relationship is slowly turning out bad, that there are still ways to keep it going. One way you can tell if your relationship is slowly going bad is when you guys are fighting a lot and you just argue about literally everything. To stop you two from fighting, one way you can control that is take a break for a few days or a week to realize if you two are really meant for each other. If you two are still fighting when you are on take break to then realize that you two aren’t meant for each other in the long run. But one way you can keep your relationship going is when you are on your break with that person and you realize that if you two keep fighting, that obviously it won’t work so you stop fighting. I’ve seen that happen to many couples that work out after they take a break, and then I see a couple that breaks up because they realized that they keep fighting and it won’t work. Most of the time when two couples fight a lot is usually the end of their relationship because most of the time, one person just gets completely annoyed about the whole situation and want to stop the relationship because it’s too stressful. Relationships shouldn’t be based on how stressful it is, it’s supposed to be calm relationship. Yes I understand that some relationships have their ups and downs, everyone does, but it depends on if the two people are actually willing to fix the relationship or to just give up on it. My opinion on relationships is that you are obviously going to have ups and downs, but you have to think twice if it’s actually something you want.