Obsessing

This blog will be about when guys decide to play with a girl’s hair. Before you even decide to do it, think twice. Does she actually want your dirty hands going through her hair? Or is she one of the other girls who actually enjoy when guys play with their hair and mess it all up. My personal opinion on that subject is I would not want a guy putting their dirty hands going through my hair and to play with it. Most girls enjoy when guys touch them and play with their hair, but there are other girls out there who absolutely hate it when they are touched all the time. That goes back to the whole statement about being too “clingy”. Some girls actually enjoy when the guy is attached to them basically on a leash because that makes them feel better about themselves. Half of the time when a guy decides to play with my hair, I usually decide to turn into a real crabby person and freak out on them because I find that absolutely disgusting. Another thing is when they decide to be attached to you at all times, most girls will find it extremely annoying and it will make things in your relationship bad because there is many people who don’t enjoy it when people are attached to their hips. Basically the only time a girl actually enjoys when a guy is attached to their hip is when it is winter out and they are freezing. That is basically the only time they want you to be there and to basically be a dog. When winter comes around, that’s always a good time to be cute and nice to the girl to make them happy. It really doesn’t take much to make a girl happy, always remember that.

Giving Gifts

In this blog another thing guys should know is when it comes to giving a girl something for the holidays, it’s a must. If you don’t end up getting her something small at least, it will probably ruin your relationship. Not giving a girl a gift for Christmas, or her birthday is something that only a shady person would do. It shouldn’t matter if she doesn’t give you something big, but at least the thought that matters. When it comes to the guy giving them something for their birthday or Christmas, it can honestly be something so small and they wouldn’t be disappointed. But if you give a girl flowers and another gift that will just make things go good with your relationship. For Valentine’s Day or Sweetest day, that’s something you should actually want to do and go out of your way and get them something. Most of the time, the girl will say “no, I don’t want anything” or “don’t worry about it, I don’t want anything”. All that means is that you should defiantly get them something, and it better be good. If you have a girlfriend who actually doesn’t rarely ask for anything, that’s when you should actually try and make it a good gift. You usually don’t find a girlfriend who doesn’t ask for much; besides you getting them food which is basically the only thing a girl wants, but you should most defiantly get them something that will make them smile. If you don’t ever get them a gift, don’t be upset when they go off and find someone who will actually get them something special. If I was the girl, I wouldn’t expect something big from the guy because they usually never give a thought in a gift and don’t really ever show feelings.

Clingy

What guys should know is when it comes to relationships, you cannot be too clingy to the girl because the only thing that will do is push her away. Then again, girls can’t be too clingy either because when guys see that a girl is too clingy, then there goes her reputation. One major thing a girl doesn’t like when a guy is too clingy is when they control who their friends are, who they talk too, who they text, and who they hang out with. There is some extent that you shouldn’t do, but if you are just friends with the friend you are hanging out with or texting, then there shouldn’t be a problem. Yes I understand some people have trust issues, but if the person never did anything to you to lose your trust, then you shouldn’t control what they do. Also for example, when girls don’t answer their phones guys literally go insane and make up all these lies thinking that the girls are doing something terrible. But when a guy doesn’t answer their phone and the girl makes a big deal about everything the guy makes it seem like they did nothing wrong but it isn’t okay when they do that. Half of the time, guys are hypocritical about everything and they don’t think twice before they say something. If you are way to clingy to a girl or guy, be sure to think twice about your actions because half of the time the girl or guy will not like it and you’ll just end up pushing the person away. Sometimes it’s okay to be clingy to someone because then again they’ll understand you care about them, but then again you shouldn’t be crazy about them and just push them away and make them go crazy.

Showing Emotion

One thing guys should know when it comes to girls is that girls love attention. If you do don’t show a girl any attention, she will think you are not interested anymore in her and she will start over reacting a lot of things. You don’t have to give the girl attention basically at all times because then she will think you’re obsessive. Some girls enjoy some attention because it shows you care and you aren’t like the rest of the guys who don’t show any emotion or feelings for anyone. If you give them some surprises or make them feel special it will make things better because it will actually make them think and know that you have feelings towards her. Personally, if I didn’t receive any attention I would think the person wouldn’t be interested and I would probably make things worse because females enjoy having a lot of attention. Half of the time, guys think they are giving the girl a lot of attention but in all reality, they aren’t at all and then they wonder why the girl is getting upset or annoyed because no one would be giving them the attention they wanted. But then again, there are some girls who don’t really enjoy having all the attention because they want the guy to make the move and make them actually know you actually care about them. Sometimes, if you don’t show a girl attention she will literally think of everything that is terrible that could happen and think it’s happening to your relationship because you aren’t showing any emotion or attention to the girl. If I came to me to pick a choice if I wanted attention or not, I would personally say I would want some attention at least to show they care but not a lot.

Taking Breaks

In this blog it will be based on how some relationships take a “break”. Some people think taking a break while you’re in a relationship help everything, but then some think it’s the easier way to say, oh I’m cheating on you or, I want to find new people but still talk to you. When you take a break with someone and you want it to turn out good, if you two are fighting a lot but you two still have a lot of feelings for each other, than taking a break is a good idea. It calms everything down but you just have to make sure you tell the person that you aren’t going to sleep around. And then there are people who take breaks because they think that’s the easier way to get around and be able to break up with the person without hurting them right away. When people talk about breaks to me, I personally think breaks are for sports and not relationship. Taking a break with someone can only improve your relationship if you actually care enough about the person and all you want to do is make your relationship better instead of it keep getting worse and worse. The reason why some people take breaks is because they feel the need to break up with that person but they don’t feel like breaking up with them at the moment, so they tell them that they are taking a break. Usually throughout the time when you are on the break, the two people start to separate and start going their own ways. The person who made them take the break is actually wanting that to happen which is the bad part, but then again its better to end the relationship instead of keeping it going and leading the person on.

Random Surprises

This blog will be based about how sometimes having a random surprise for your girlfriend or wife isn’t a bad thing. Most of the time, girls absolutely love it when guys either gives them flowers, cards, or jewelry just because they thought it would be a good idea. But then again, girls shouldn’t expect this to happen all the time or from most of the guys because they would get their hopes up because most of the guys aren’t all the same and aren’t being cute to girls randomly. But if you are actually a nice guy and actually want to get something for you girlfriend or wife, flowers are always the trick. If you surprise her with that, I promise you that she would be the happiest female on this earth. But when it comes to jewelry, like they say, diamonds are a girl’s best friend. If the girl tries to tell you that she doesn’t want anything expensive or anything, do it anyways. Just the smallest thing you give them would make them happier because that actually means you’re thinking about them, and that usually never happens when it comes to guys. If I were to get a surprise from my boyfriend, even one single flower could honestly change your whole mood on the whole entire day because it’s honestly the thought that matters which makes girls happy. Some girls are extremely picky when it comes to gifts, and if I was the guy in the relationship, I wouldn’t give them anything because stubborn people don’t deserve anything nice because they just expect it to get handed to them. All this blog has to talk about is, when it comes to making a girl happy or even just putting a smile on her face; a single flower could do a lot.