Friend Zone

There are a lot of things guys should know about being in the friend zone. This whole blog will be based on being in the friend zone. Most of the time, guys think that aren’t in the friend zone, and believe they can get any girl they want…Well they are wrong. Funny part is, most of the time, girls only want a guy friend and nothing more. Being in the friend zone doesn’t make you a bad person, I personally think it makes you a better person. If I was a guy, I personally think it being in the friend zone would make things better because if you’re friends you stay friends for usually a long time. But when you date someone, it usually doesn’t last forever. So you end up breaking up, and then you lose that person. Being in the friend zone is sometimes hard to figure out. So the best way to figure that out is to ask them straight up. Because if you go in for the move and then end up finding out that you two are only friends, you’ll most likely not be friends anymore because that’s just awkward. This has happened to a few of my friends, so I make sure I stay away from it so it doesn’t happen to me because that would be a very awkward thing. Being in the friend zone isn’t always a bad thing, so next time someone complains about them being in the “friend zone”, just explain to them that it isn’t a bad thing.

What You Should Know

There are a lot of things guys should know when it comes to girls. This is basically all based on relationship types of things that guys should take a look at to understand. They think they know how girls feel and what they want… but in reality, they don’t at all. They go off and say that they are “crazy” when the girl is just upset, but they never have the chance to talk about it and they just go off and assume things. Most of the time, guys think they can get any girl they want and expect that they can talk to anyone but they can’t, at all. My opinion on it is I just find it funny because guys are so sassy about it and it’s just a turn off. When it comes to staying truthful to a girl, guys make it seem absolutely impossible to actually do it and stay true because they always end up cheating or doing something unfaithful. Once a girl gets hurt once, they will always expect that all guys are the same person and that guys should understand that they have to go easy on it and go slow at first. When girls are pmsing, guys find it okay to not go around the girls… Most of them time, girls will actually want someone there to keep them company. Guys just think girls are so difficult to deal with, and they aren’t at all. Guys just don’t actually put in an effort and expect too much from them.

Trust Issues

Most guys think gaining trust from a girl is extremely easy… Well, it isn’t at all. It takes a female a long time to finally gain full trust from you. You may think you have her trust, but she’s only just testing you to see if you mess anything up. Usually, guys end up messing something up and that’s what the girl usually expects because it always happens. If they allow you to go to a other females house with your friends, they are only testing you. Don’t make it seem like you have their trust, because there’s a 99% chance you don’t at all. Most girls will allow you to be friends with other females because they don’t want to be “psycho” but they actually really don’t want you to be friends with another female unless they know for a fact it’s only JUST a friend and nothing more. Most females are not crazy, but there are some females who can’t control themselves. Once you break a girls trust the first time, there is a very slim chance you will get that back. Females are extremely picky when it comes trying someone who broke their trust the first time because it seems like it always happens. There are some ways you can gain the trust back, but it just depends on the person itself. Like they always says… “once a cheater, always a cheater”. Most females follow that because it is very true. If you cheat on a loyal girl, you deserve nothing but to be miserable. Doing that to a female will only make the rest of her relationships she has after the person who cheated on make it seem like every other one will be like that.

Jealousy

This blog will be about what guys should know and how they shouldn’t try to make girls jealous. Every single guy tries to make a girl jealous by talking to a girl that she doesn’t like. Most guys find it funny and amusing when they do it, but girls are extremely sensitive when it comes to those things. Guys who try and make girls jealous honestly don’t deserve a relationship because all it does is just ruin the girls self-steam when it comes to things. When a guy tries to make a girl jealous, he goes out of his way and makes sure the girl see what he is doing. When a girl tries to make a guy jealous, it either leads to the guy fighting the other guy, or just them completely forgetting the girl and moving on completely. When it comes to a girl moving on, it takes a long period of time. When it comes to guys, they barely even care when it comes to it and they honestly don’t even care about their feelings because they think they could get any of other girl. Girls do not find it attractive or cute when guys go out of their way to make them jealous. They have no reason to try because when it actually comes down to it, they girl will find out anything and everything and it won’t change anything. This blog explains on how guys shouldn’t try and make girls jealous just because they think its okay

Balancing Friendships

This blog will be about how guys need to understand when they do start talking to a girl, or dating her, you can’t stop talking to your friends and especially your friends that are girls. Seems like lately every guy who is talking to a girl or dating them stops talking to their friends who are girls because the girl they are dating they thinks the guy will go off and do stupid stuff with his friend that’s a girl. Most guys don’t understand how annoying it gets that the guys keep doing that but when a girl does what they do, it’s a complete different story. Most of the time, girls are able to balance their friends and their boyfriend but when it comes to a guy doing it, it’s literally impossible for them. A good amount of time, a guy friend is able to hang out with a girl and her boyfriend but when it’s the other way around, girls don’t approve and wouldn’t allow the guys girl friend hang out also. I believe that’s why in high school you lose a lot of friends because that’s when people get boyfriends or girlfriends, and that’s when separation happens because they can’t learn how to balance friends and a boyfriend or girlfriend. Sometimes, that’s what is supposed to happen because not a lot of friendships last, but most of the time it messes up a friendship that  was a long period of time.

Making Time

In this article, one thing guys should know is when it  comes to them paying attention to the girl and trying to maintain their focus on their vehicle or for example a truck. Most of the time when a guy has a truck he usually spends most of his time either fixing their truck, or cleaning it, and just improving it. Sometimes girls don’t mind watching a guy fix their truck or car because it could be interesting to them, but 90% of the time they just find it absolutely boring. Some girls are interesting in trucks and cars so they ask questions but guys usually say they are stupid or something because they don’t know everything they do. When it comes to guys trying to maintain having a girlfriend and being obsessed with their truck, it seems like it’s another girl. Whenever a guy has spare time, they go off and work on their truck or car which instead they should be hanging out with their girlfriend. Girls don’t want to say they get upset or mad, but most of the time they do because they find it unfair. There’s nothing a girl can do that they can say that they are obsessed with because they usually give all of their time to them.  Girls would be happier and more easier to please if guys tried giving more of their attention to them instead of other things.